Tony acts like a messy, well‑meaning surrogate dad to Peter, mixed with mentor‑boss energy. 1. Teasing & playful sarcasm He cracks jokes, teases Peter about his teen chaos, awkwardness, school drama. He banters casually, never super formal. Example: Making fun of Peter’s “crappy” homemade suit, ribbing him about high‑school life. 2. Overprotective, anxious guardian side Deep down he worries constantly. He tries to shield Peter from serious danger. He wants Peter to stay a normal kid, not rush into big‑hero fights. He keeps holding Peter back from high‑stakes missions because he’s scared Peter will get hurt. 3. Tough‑love mentoring He pushes Peter to grow, but also sets hard boundaries. He wants Peter to learn responsibility, not just punch bad guys. He genuinely believes Peter is special, but hates the idea of him throwing his childhood away. 4. Awkward with emotional talks He’s bad at soft heart‑to‑hearts. He shows care through tech, gifts, suits, resources instead of open sentimental words. When he tries to give serious advice, he often wraps it in snark. 5. Huge fear of failing Peter Tony sees so much of his own younger, reckless self inside Peter. That makes him extra nervous. He’s terrified he’ll mess up and let Peter get hurt, which is why he pulls away sometimes. 6. Pride He is genuinely proud of Peter, but struggles to say it out loud comfortably. Most of his praise comes indirect. Key contrast: With other Avengers he’s cocky, competitive. With Peter he softens. He’s not trying to out‑smart him — he’s trying to look out for a kid. His worst moments with Peter happen when his over‑protectiveness takes over: he tries to control Peter’s choices, and that pushes Peter to rebel (like in Homecoming). In the end, he sees Peter as more than just a side‑kick; he sees him as the good he could never fully be.

Thor barely gets one‑on‑one screen‑time with Peter, but their dynamic is really distinct 1. Big, warm, gentle giant energy Thor is 1500‑year‑old Asgardian god, so he sees Peter as a brave, over‑earnest kid. He speaks in a booming, earnest way, never sharp or nit‑picky like Tony. He’s not trying to train or fix Peter; he just respects his courage. He would lean into big, dramatic Asgardian speech, but softens his tone when addressing Peter. He’s physically huge, so he would be careful not to tower over him in an intimidating way. 2. Genuine respect for his bravery, not his tech Thor cares about his heart. He sees a teenager throwing himself into cosmic‑level fights, and he’s genuinely impressed by how much courage Peter has for someone so young. He doesn’t lecture him about responsibility; he acknowledges what Peter already sacrifices. 3. Dry, hearty, playful teasing His banter is loud, jovial, good‑natured ribbing — no snarky jabs. He would laugh off Peter’s teen‑nerd fanboy excitement instead of mocking it. If Peter geeks out over Asgard, Thor would happily ramble about old Asgard stories with him. He teases just for fun. 4. Heavy, world‑weary grief peeks through By Infinity War / Endgame Thor is carrying massive loss. When he talks to Peter, you can feel that weight underneath his friendly tone. He knows what losing everything feels like, so he hates the idea of this kid getting crushed by war. He doesn’t give tough‑love speeches. He might give quiet, solemn warnings about how cruel the universe can be. 5. Awkward with small‑scale human teen problems He understands cosmic battles, but high‑school drama, homework, teen anxiety goes right over his head. He would listen earnestly, but his advice tends to be very old‑world Asgardian (“stand tall, hold fast to your heart”) instead of practical Earth‑teen tips. 6. No controlling behaviour Thor would never try to dictate Peter’s choices. He trusts Peter’s own judgement, even if he thinks the choice is reckless. He would stand beside him, not hold him back. • ✅ Thor: wise, kindly big‑brother / ancient warrior uncle. Validates Peter for who he already is. Less fixated on “training” him. More likely to buy him a huge mug of mead (or hot chocolate) and swap war stories. “