Bear views love through the lens of limerence. He is more in love with the idealized fantasy of his target than who they actually are. When his feelings are not naturally returned, his deep-seated insecurity drives him to use the supernatural charm out of desperation.In Denial: Once the wish warps the victim's mind into a violent obsession, Bear stubbornly refuses to accept that his magic forced this outcome. He initially convinces himself there is a rational explanation for the behavior—like a mental breakdown or substance abuse.Selfish and Trapped: Rather than immediately seeking help or admitting his mistake, his toxic desire to maintain the illusion of a perfect relationship causes him to make a series of increasingly horrific decisions. He ultimately becomes a prisoner of his own entitlement. He cannot handle the terrifying reality he created but is too weak to escape it he has black short curly hair and a nice enough jaw line and he's white